However, last weekend, a few friends suggested in all seriousness that I run for office, because of the passion I have for the issues. And I mean all the issues - not just health care and cap&trade, but the the day to day legislation. Finger Lakes designation as national park? I got an opinion. Selling wine in grocery stores in NY? I got an opinion. Managing the flood of tourists in the West Village turning my neighborhood into a mall? You BET I got an opinion, probably two of 'em.
That got me to thinking about what a Jonathan Saw candidacy and platform would look like. I came to the conclusion it would be something that not even my closest friends would be entirely comfortable with. Why? Because despite what you may think from my demographics (Asian-American, college-educated; graduate school, urban resident, gay, 40) I'm don't really fit the mold of the urban liberal elites. I'm pretty much your quintessential Rockefeller Republican - fiscally conservative, socially liberal (to a point).
Now just which one of our two parties do you think someone with those viewpoints would feel most at home in? If you said neither - you'd be right.
Let's take a look at the big social issues:
1) Abortion: I believe in choice. The anti-choice zealots wrapping themselves in the language of "life" are bankrupt. Money should be spent to inform our kids (and adults) of contraception. However, I also believe that abstinence should be a part of the equation. In addition, sex education should take into account both the overall community as well as the parents wishes. How does this work in practice? Let's take our great urban metropolises. Parents should be able to opt out of sex education classes if there religion or beliefs does not permit a frank discussion of sexuality. However these parents do not have the right to veto the ability of everyone else's children to receive that information. Conversely, in the rural South, Parents should have the right to have contraception (scientifically based education, not the crap that spews from anti-choice idiots) taught to their kids in the classroom, as an opt-in, even if the larger community wants abstinence only.
2) Gay marriage: Clearly I'm all for this. But I believe that getting the rights and responsibilities first is the critical first step. We can argue semantics later. Case in point, as we were losing the Prop 1 vote in Maine, Washington State voters were approving the "everything but marriage" legislation for gay couples. Essentially, Washington voters were showing that people are willing to provide us the rights, but the word has too much baggage. I realize this isn't a cure-all nor a substitution for full-marriage equality. But I can't help but think that our daily lives would be better off if we had incremental rights all over the country. We can start off with the biggies like medical decision making, inheritance, taxes and survivor benefits. (Something, by the way, which could be passed in almost every state.) Then we could have those states that are ready for "everything but marriage" laws as in California, Washington and New Jersey. Following on that would be marriage itself, the rights, the responsibilities and the word.
3) Guns: We have enough laws. But they need to be enforced. Also, is it not possible to make a distinction between criminal use and non-criminal use? Do we need to have bans? Closing the loopholes on current registration laws would nicely do the trick. Then we can focus resources on getting gins out of the hands of criminals, as opposed to wasting time adding more and more restrictions on law-abiding gun owners.
4) Affirmative action: Our efforts here are misplaced. We need to spend more early on in the educational life of our kids, so that when they reach their final year of high school, the top performers also represent the percentage of their race in the population (give or take a few percentage points). AA is a necessary evil until this becomes a reality. High school is too late to rectify over a decade of inequality and resources in education. Where would we find the money? I say take it away from prisons.
Despite all of this, can you imagine if more people like me actually were in politics? The kind of person who is interested in solutions and not just political points; the kind with the courage to point out and shout down the BS from both sides of the aisle; the kind who is more beholden to his constituents than his party!!!
Well, keep your eyes and ears open. When you hear these slogans shouted from the streets, in emails, in mass mailings... when people start asking you to become a fan or donate money, you'll know I've decided to take that plunge.
The big question is whether I'll have a D or R after my name.
You knew I wouldn't be able to resist. I know you knew it... :)
ReplyDelete1) Abortion. Pro-choice is okay with me (although I am a lifer). This point is more about school programs. You're on the right track...just need a good conservative to help you. You inadvertently assert that each state should have a their own mechanism to deal with these issues - EXACTLY. This is a State's right's issue; a 10th Amendment issue. Each state should determine its own school sex ed laws and abortion laws for that matter. If NY wants to condone and fund abortions, that's really okay with me as long as the people vote to make the decision. This is not something he courts should have any involvement with whatsoever.
2. Gay Marriage - again, you're right there! You ALMOST have a wonderfully conservative position. Even you agree that "marriage" has become such a flash word that it almost isn't worth it. Take all the rights that any married couple has - just leave the word out of it (I frankly could care less). If you would just stop short of the designation, you would get everything you want and pacify the R's. And if there is some macro-societal benefit of having marriage remain defined as being between a man and woman, that benfit will still be realized (a debate for another day?).
3. Guns - again - you're almost home, brother! Totally agree that we do not need new laws; that we have plenty already. But then you go wanting a registry to "focus on getting the guns out of the hands of criminals." So, you think that the criminals are going to go register their guns? You should think this through.
4. AA - ugghhh - so close. Yes, our efforts are misplaced. Do you really think we still need to beat equality into the minds of the very young? I mean really...here I am, there worth of the worst - a white, self employed, Christian, make - and I can tell you...color, race, creed make ZERO difference to me. Most of my associations who are similarly afflicted also could care less what color someone is. We there - we got there probably sometime between the OJ trial and Barack Obama. But we're there. SO yes, take money out of the prisons and spend it on illegal immigration enforcement. Ha!
Seriously - you're right there. I think you're more conservative than you let on to be - you just need to full come out (hard as it may be to do in the Village. (Do they let conservatives live on Manhattan? Not sure...)
Also seriously - I'd vote for you. I really would. You'd just need the "R."
Stay well -
H
Harry! I should do a better job of keeping up with the comments on my blog. I know you'll blame the progressive in me for being lazy ;-)
ReplyDeleteBut I gotta give some clarification:
1) Abortion: I SPECIFICALLY assert states rights here. And even more local than that. With the proper opt-out/opt-ins, for school programs I think we could all be happy. I don't want folks from Alabama telling me what to do in NY and I'm sure the opposite is true.
2) Gay marriage: Don't get me wrong here. I want to get married and have marriage equality. However, I am willing to get all the rights and responsibilities first (including all the federal ones) as a first step toward actually getting the word.
3) Guns: I didn't say we needed a registry, just that the registries we have now seem so porous that anyone can get a gun (for example at a gun show). My point was let's spend time trying to find how to get guns out of the hands of criminals. Frighteningly I think we're on the same page here. ;-)
4) AA: I'm not saying we should be pushing concepts of equality in schools. I'm saying that we need to put money into elementary and secondary school into things like English and Math and Science and some Arts programs so that by the time people are applying to college the top 10% of seniors reflect their community (instead of being all white and Asian as now).
Though you're right... I am MUCH more conservative than I let on. I told you I used to be an R ages ago.
Thanks for visiting buddy.